Is My Child Gambling?

Young people today are gambling in ways that look very different from the past, often through activities that seem harmless but still carry real risks—do you know if your child is gambling? You may be surprised. With new trends and changing language, gambling can be harder for parents to recognize, even though the dangers are just as serious.

In addition, with the rapid rise of mobile sports betting and other online platforms, gambling addiction has become a growing public health crisis. What was once a personal struggle now affects families, communities, and society at large, as easy access and normalization make it easier than ever to develop serious gambling problems.

What is Gambling?

Gambling definition: Gambling is risking money or something valuable on an event with an uncertain outcome, hoping to win more. It isn’t just casinos or poker — it can include betting on sports, video games, stocks, and casino and card games. Any activity that involves chance and the possibility of gain or loss can be gambling.

Gambling language: Young people often talk about gambling in ways that don’t sound traditional, which can make it hard for parents to recognize risky behavior. Understanding the words our kids use is an important step in spotting problems early. Does your child use any of this language?

Betting, Wagering, Punting, Putting, Firing, Laying, Staking, Donating, Bidding, Score, Playing, Looting, Spinning, Chipping, Flipping, Skins, Lock, Loot Box, Parlays.

Dangers for Young People

The Five A’s: Why Young People Are at Increased Risk

The risks for young people to fall into problem gambling were summarized by researchers Donald Nowak and Ariel Aloe as ‘the Five A’s’:

  1. Availability: Easy access to various betting opportunities through personal devices and online platforms.

  2. Acceptability: The normalization of gambling within social circles and campus culture.

  3. Advertising: Exposure to pervasive and often targeted gambling advertisements, including those featuring celebrities and athletes.

  4. Access to Money: The ease with which young people can obtain funds through family, credit cards, loans, or digital payment methods.

  5. Age: Young people are in a period of experimentation with risky behaviors, making them more susceptible.
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Ways Young People Gamble

Gambling isn’t just in casinos anymore — it’s everywhere. Many of young peoples’ activities don’t look like traditional gambling, and age checks and laws aren’t always effective, making it easier for youth to take risks without parents noticing.

Evolving Traditional Gambling

  • Casino Games: Slot machines, poker, blackjack, and other traditional casino games are now available both in-person and online, often through apps that look like harmless entertainment. Young people may not realize how quickly these games can lead to risky spending or gambling habits. iGaming is legal in some states, but there are many illegal, off-shore options as well, and kids can use VPNs to access sites not in their area.
  • Lottery/Scratchers: Many young people are introduced to gambling through seemingly harmless lottery tickets or scratchers, often given by family members as gifts. While it may feel like a fun treat, this early exposure can normalize gambling and make it more likely for habits to develop over time.
  • Social and Sweepstakes Casinos: These casino-style games appear on social media and mobile apps, using virtual coins that often lead to real-money play. Players can buy coins and receive “sweeps coins” that can be exchanged for cash prizes, blurring the line between gaming and gambling. Their flashy design, weak age checks, and legal gray zones make them especially risky for young people—creating false confidence and paving the way for real-money gambling.
  • Video Terminals: Video Gaming Terminals (VGTs) and Video Lottery Terminals (VLTs) are slot-style machines found outside of traditional casinos — often in bars, restaurants, truck stops, or convenience stores. They look and feel like casino games, offering quick, repetitive play and instant rewards that can be highly addictive. While they may seem harmless or low-stakes, these machines expose young adults to gambling in everyday settings, normalizing risky behavior and making it easier to develop gambling problems without ever setting foot in a casino.

Sports Betting

  • Sports Betting: Young people now have more ways than ever to gamble on sports, from traditional wagers on games to online microbets on every play. With many platforms available on smartphones and websites, betting can happen anytime, anywhere. While these activities can seem fun or low-risk, their speed, frequency, and constant online accessibility make it easier to develop gambling problems. Sports betting operators often use AI to deliver personalized bonus offers, promotions, and changing odds, encouraging players to bet more and increasing the risk of harmful habits.

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  • Using a Bookie: Bookies are not a thing of the past — they’ve simply moved into new spaces. Many young people connect with bookies through friends, dorms, schools, or social media, making it easy to place bets quietly and casually. What may start as small wagers to “join in” can quickly grow, especially when money moves easily through payment apps or social networks. The secretive nature of these arrangements makes them especially risky, leaving parents unaware that gambling is happening right under their noses.

  • Fantasy Sports: Fantasy sports once centered around friendly competition — friends tracking players and teams over an entire season just for fun and bragging rights. Today, that casual pastime has evolved into daily fantasy sports, where constant betting, instant results, and cash prizes can turn play into a high-stakes, fast-paced cycle of chasing wins and losses. What used to be about connection and strategy has, for many, become a gateway to frequent gambling behaviors.

  • Social Sports Books: Social and Sweepstakes sports betting sites may look like harmless “free games,” but they’re really a backdoor form of online gambling. Players buy virtual coins, and are gifted sweeps coins or cash that can be turned into real cash prizes, making it just as addictive and risky as traditional gambling. These sites often operate in legal gray areas, with weak age verification, and are designed to hook people in—putting young people at serious risk.

Gaming and Entertainment

  • Video Games: Many popular video games include features like loot boxes, skins, and in-game betting. These mimic gambling by offering random rewards for money, which can normalize gambling behaviors from a young age. These in-game items can also be used as currency on off-shore casinos with weak age checks.

  • Card Games: Playing card games like poker or blackjack with family and friends can be a fun way to connect and enjoy some friendly competition. But if money or betting gets involved, it can quietly teach gambling behaviors and make risk-taking feel normal, especially for young players.

  • Card Collecting: Card collecting can cross into gambling when money and chance mix—like buying mystery packs to “chase” rare cards. The thrill of not knowing what you’ll get triggers the same brain reward system as slot machines, leading some people, especially youth, to overspend or develop risky habits.

  • Trading Card Games: Trading Card Games can teach the same risk and reward thinking used in poker. Many poker players started with these games, and that familiarity can make gambling feel safe or skill-based. Parents should know that the jump from strategy games to real-money gambling can happen easily — and quickly lead to harmful patterns.

Emerging Digital Risks

  • Stocks and Day Trading: Trading apps can make stock market investing feel like a game. For teens and young adults, the fast pace of day trading and the lure of quick profits can mimic gambling, fostering risky and impulsive financial habits. Parents may believe their children are “investing” and gaining financial skills, but the volatility, instant feedback, and casino-like design of these platforms can make them especially dangerous for young people.

  • Cryptocurrency & Meme Coins: Trading cryptocurrency and meme coins can feel exciting and modern, but for many young people it functions just like gambling. Prices swing wildly, rewards are unpredictable, and online hype fuels impulsive, high-risk behavior. The constant checking, chasing losses, and thrill of “winning big” can quickly create addictive patterns and financial harm — especially for youth who may not fully understand the risks or how easily they can lose money.

  • Prediction Markets: Prediction markets let people bet money on the outcome of future events — like elections, sports, or celebrity news — under the guise of “forecasting.” While they may look like harmless data tools, they operate just like gambling: players risk real money for uncertain rewards. For youth, these markets can be especially dangerous because they blend gambling with current events and online communities, making it easy to get hooked on the thrill of being “right” and winning fast money.

Today's Gambling Landscape

How Platforms are Designed to Hook Young People

Online gambling platforms are designed to keep players engaged and spending. They use powerful marketing and behavioral tactics—such as welcome bonuses, “free” credits, and near-miss designs that make losses feel like wins—to create excitement and encourage continued play. Personalized ads and notifications often target users based on their past activity, drawing them back when they try to stop. Fast, continuous play and easy access through apps or social media make it especially easy for young people to lose track of time and money. These features are not accidental—they’re built to keep players coming back.

The Advertising and Access Problem

Young people are exposed to nonstop advertising for gambling, often featuring celebrities, athletes, or social media influencers they admire. Platforms and content creators on YouTube, TikTok, Twitch, and Kick frequently showcase extreme bets, “big wins,” or flashy challenges, making gambling look exciting and normal. With easy access through phones, weak age verification, and peer pressure to “play along,” gambling can quickly slip into everyday life — often without parents even realizing it. The combination of constant online exposure, influencer hype, and social normalization increases the risk that casual curiosity turns into risky or addictive behavior.

Why Young Brains are Especially Vulnerable

These gambling activities are especially risky for young people because their brains are still developing the parts responsible for impulse control, decision-making, and assessing risk. The instant rewards and constant stimulation of online gambling can strongly activate the brain’s reward system, making it easier to form habits and harder to stop. Over time, this can shape unhealthy patterns around risk, reward, and coping that may persist into adulthood. Want to learn more about how gambling affects the brain? Visit the Brain Connections website.

Community and Mental Health as Antidotes to Problems with Gambling

When it comes to reducing the chances that a young person will turn to gambling as a way to cope, two of the strongest protective factors are a supportive community and good mental health. These work hand in hand by building emotional support, a sense of belonging, healthy coping skills, and resilience.

From our conversations with many families, we’ve learned that gambling problems often occur alongside other challenges such as stress, anxiety, or difficulty managing emotions. If you notice that your child seems to be struggling—socially, emotionally, or mentally— seek professional guidance early.

Many young people use gambling to manage uncomfortable feelings or pressures, so helping them find healthier ways to cope and connect with others can make a big difference in preventing gambling from becoming a problem.

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Realizing your child may be struggling with gambling can feel overwhelming, frightening, and lonely — but you are not alone, and there is hope. Many parents have walked this road and found ways to help their children heal and rebuild trust. With understanding, support, and the right resources, recovery is possible. Reaching out for help is the first brave step toward healing — for your child, and for your family.